The substance that gets you high is the gateway to confusion. This transit can create difficulty in how we see ourselves. There is a distorted mirror in front of us. We may be idealizing someone. We may be painting someone too negatively. Whichever the case, the truth is that we are seeing a hyper exaggerated self reflection.
Wherever there are self esteem and self image issues, this transit leaves us open to problematic interactions. These interactions will involve people but also habits and addictions. However we use the environment around us to see ourselves, we will get a distorted and exaggerated image in return.
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We are trying to fill a void in our self image.
Watch and learn, take notes and fill yourself with love.⃝
If a connection is already shaky or nearing loss of control, beware of a breaking point. New people, places and things will feel exciting because they promise ‘escape’ from the parts of ourselves we see and don’t like in others.
⃝If you have a drug or anger problem, get some support or an outlet that is safe ⃝ Plan to be around people instead of ruminating, it might be uncomfortable, but it will help you in the long run.⃝
Tonight is a good time to just take stock of what you see in the environment. Recognize where have sensitivities and triggers. It isn’t likely that anyone else can really help you alleviate your anxieties, but they can be present with you if you can be present with yourself.
Substances need to be treated with the utmost respect. They will be more effective in both their intoxicating effects and the load they put on our organs. If you have the inclination towards partying… do something expressive and playful. Stay open and keep your wits about you. Heavy drinking or hard drug use could land you in a place you really don’t want to be, physically, romantically or spiritually.
Dishonesty under this influence will come to light. If you aren’t happy with someone, take note of it. Tomorrow, after Venus moves into Capricorn, reflect again on the situation and consider how changes could be made. You may find that you just needed to validate your own feelings. Once you do this, the situation between you and another person calms down.
⃝If you are cheating or thinking about it, think again, you are being foolish.
You’ll regret it woefully in the near future, clean that up. ⃝
Remember that whatever patterns we draw into our life, we have called them in. It doesn’t mean we deserve to be treated like trash or suffer. However it does indicate that we have something to learn through handling the situation with love, patience, compassion and curiosity.
If we blame others for how we feel, we are on the wrong track. That could be easy to do right now, so don’t sweat it or them, just focus somewhere else. If you need to be weird and stand out or even make a bit of a scene, please do it, with care, it’s okay.
The bonus gift of this time is to accept how everything works. Regardless of how we feel, there is an interwoven fabric holding everything together. Singing, dancing, listening to and making music, cooking and eating good food are all favored this evening. Watch your spending and check your accounts, Venus Neptune may have us forgetting about some necessary payments that are due soon. By tomorrow evening, we will be well aware of them.
Venus enters Capricorn less than twelve hours after completing a square to Neptune. Joining up with the Sun and Mars, the vibe should change swiftly as we shift gears on Wednesday. It may take until the evening or even Christmas day before we feel the full grounding effect. Mercury is the lone planet left in Sagittarius and is moving into trine with Chiron ((exact Saturday December 27th)). On Wednesday, everything begins to line up. While it may not make sense yet, we are motivated to approach and conquer what is ahead of us. There have been so many aspects between personal planets and outer planets in the last few months, now there is some breathing room.
This can feel reflective and poignant. Get comfortable with yourself to enjoy this transition
Even though it is the ‘holiday’ season, there is some motivation to ‘get back to work’. Projects, hobbies and interests feel a little more enticing. Maybe you wanna play a game or talk about future plans with your loved ones. Have some strong ideas and put them out there, see what others can do with them.
This time of Venus in Capricorn can feel a little cold if you rely on others for warmth. In a way, it begs us to take care of ourselves first. Nothing can be done for others unless we can do it for ourselves. Capricorn will build the structure and lead the way.
Venus in Capricorn Notable Transits
January 6th – Venus Cazimi @ 16°
January 9th – Opposite Jupiter @ 20°
January 11th – Square Chiron @ 22°
January 15th – Trine Uranus @ 27°
January 17th – Ingress Aquarius
Venus is here to help us smooth things out. There is a restrictive quality to the times but it is important to see it more as a refinement. Venus in Capricorn knows what it doesn’t need. Where we are invested in projects it can be hard to let go. If we aren’t getting a return on the investment, this 4 weeks can make it easier to re negotiate or cut ties.
With Venus in Capricorn the cosmos are giving you more authority and autonomy. Whether we use it or not, that’s up to us. If we are trying to free ourselves or work on codependency, this time is fantastic. Not fantastically enjoyable, but quite fruitful. Hard work does pay off, but you have to enjoy what you are doing. Even masochists enjoy their struggle.
Being someone else’s slave will have you wondering what you are doing in your life. The more ways in which you respond to the will of another, the less of your own energy you will have. It is this personal energy that Capricorn needs to prosper. Lead and let others follow. If they are slowing you down enough, you may rethink the connection. If, by chance, there is an agreement or contract, being dutiful will feel effortless. Honor your contracts and agreements, but don’t let people take you for granted.
Again, if you like what you are doing and believe in the cause, working for someone else can be fulfilling and enriching.
Those parts of us that have a hard time deciding for ourselves will be challenged. Take these challenges in stride. Know that the pressure you feel is exaggerated, it ain’t that serious. Take some calculated risks with your life. Under this influence, we can really size things up. In order to take action, we must believe it’s worth it.
Bravery is internal, it doesn’t need to be shown to the world. Make some decisions that are for your best interest, even if you are scared.
Maybe this month will have you doing next to nothing, just following your own little world. If so, this is great. If something needs to change, you’ll know it. It is very likely, however, that you are incredibly wise and capable. Being in your own energy is a testament to self trust and faith. Keep things the way that they are and love your time on Earth. You deserve to have a break from striving. Less is more, so don’t complicate your life. Keep it simple and enjoy what you have.
Have a fantastic return of the Sun.
Whatever you celebrate, you deserve to enjoy what you believe in.
Thank you so much for reading and following.
Be kind to yourself and loving to others.
Use the Capricorn energy to be calm, cool, collected and wise.
I know it is in you.
Big Love
James
