Complications are easy to come by these days. It is healthy to be considerate but sometimes it just puts us into a hole we can’t escape. Give everyone space to be who they are, beware of trying to help or fix. The urge to interject one’s own input is strong. Opinions are ideas we have developed through our own unique lenses. No one else must agree with what we think for it to be valid. In the same way, however someone else lives is their way of doing it. We can believe one way is right or another way is wrong, and someone else may believe the opposite.
Most everyone desires a peaceful world. The trouble is, a peaceful world will come when individuals that make up the world are peaceful within. Through chaos comes clarity, and each person must walk their chaotic path.
Around this full moon, look for opportunities to learn about the world instead of changing it to fit your will. Many are motivated to push their will onto others in order to make the world a better place. Some do this from a righteous religious ideology. Others do it from a narcissistic desire to control all outcomes. Others use their intellectual pride to speak down to others and convince them to believe what they hold true.
Each of these approaches is a valid way to live. A person trying to force beliefs or manipulate me isn’t really an issue. Just like a salesperson at a store who tries to sell me something I don’t want. I just ignore them or tell them ‘better luck with the next person’. The same is true for social, family and community pressure.
Human beings want to impose their will on their environment. We create, move things, work with things and seek to leave some sort of imprint. It is reasonable to want to share what we hold to be sacred. So, again, it isn’t problematic for someone to be evangelical, the issue is when others don’t know how to say ‘no thank you’. To this day, I have still not been convinced to join the Jehovah’s Witnesses, even though they have been knocking on my doors since 1982.
It is a necessity to fortify our own boundaries, then we won’t feel so inclined to infringe on the boundaries of others. Additionally, we won’t be so ‘offended’ and ‘triggered’ when someone else encroaches into our space. When we know and express our ‘NO’, it isn’t so troubling for someone to disagree or try to convince us of something.
Aspect around the Moon are pieces to the Puzzle.
Mercury Trine Jupiter
Coming from Mercury in Pisces to Jupiter in Cancer, something has been brewing. It wants to be spoken, heard, recognized and received. Maybe there is something you need to say to your family. You’ve had enough, you don’t understand how they can be like this, why are they keeping secrets, why are they the way that they are!!! I am being a little dramatic but I want you to understand how this works.
We have pleased and sacrificed for so long. Most likely since the day that we were born. We learn as children to make peace with parents, teachers, siblings and extended family. We learn to hide our authentic selves in order have things go a little smoother. All the while, we notice all of the things that we don’t like. We accept treatment, scenarios, even abuse that, as an adult, we would never allow.
It’s a balance between a fear of abandonment/rejection and a desire to set boundaries.
How are these two connected? Well, I think you get it, but it still doesn’t make sense. This idea can exist and persist within us, that if we speak our truth, we will be rejected. Hundreds of years ago, this may cause our demise, being ostracized from the village to live in the harsh winter in the forest. Today, this looks like shaming, radio silence and in some parts of the world imprisonment or violence.
The cost of speaking your truth is to break the illusions of yourself and others, they generally don’t appreciate that (at least right away). I am proud to say that I have had decades of being the person who does this. Have I been treated well… no. Would I do it again… yes, of course. Being liked for what I DO NOT say is akin to living as a corpse. A husk of my true radiant self.
Keep in mind that the motivations for your expression are coming from a very deep place. A space that was wounded well before now. Some work must be done to clear excess energy. Journaling, practicing what you will say with a friend or writing a letter that you don’t send. These practices can have us understanding ourselves better. Through this awareness, we will communicate more clearly, authentically and soften the blow of whatever truth is arriving.
The upgrades are being put into place and it is our job to learn to use them.
Saturn Sextile Pluto
See my previous post Saturn Sextile Pluto :: March 28th 2026 for more detailed info.
Pluto is the agent of change these days. It is deep, intense, full of adrenaline and surprise. We are in a very short window (until April 25th) where we get to integrate some of the changes of the first few years of Pluto in Aquarius. Saturn in sextile brings up themes from 2020/2021 ((have a nice think on that one)). Also it enables us to bring some semblance of structure to our lives where they have been disoriented since that time. All this being said, this ongoing aspect is here to help us, but nothing about it is easy. When it comes to personal growth, for every reason to not do something, make your desire the reason that you do it. This one is social… Say NO when you need to, don’t be a sheep.
Chiron Forward, Moving Away from Eris
This aspect has left an indelible imprint on our psyche. Its hard to look away from the woundings of the world. It is far more challenging today to ignore how things work at their very core. There are a lot of beautiful things in the world, but that isn’t what Chiron Eris is about. Eris has created a mess that will continue until we clean up what the mess exposes. Thats a lot to consider, I know. Just know that whatever instability has come up in the last 6 months, it will end up teaching you exactly what you needed. Will it be fun? Probably not. Will it be rewarding? 100%!
So as Chiron begins to make space from Eris and head towards Taurus ((June 19th 2026)), the wounds are known, open and certainly not healed. There can be a forlorn feeling that streaks through the energy field from time to time. How it catches each of us is dependent on a number of factors. How it strikes you on whichever day it does, know that the way forward is to feel it without getting lost in it. Remember, we are not victims, we are growing through adversity in order to know ourselves in the most complete of ways. It’s a gift to grow.
One hack, if there was one, to this time… take on the challenges before they absolutely HAVE to be handled. This will reduce overall cortisol load and confidence.
Venus moved into Taurus March 30th
This is a nice window of time ((until April 23rd)), as we engage with our senses in new ways. There can be some challenge with feeling exhausted, hungry or just disinterested in the world. I urge you to lean into rest. Lean into self care. Lean into doing whatever the f&ck you want to.
At this full moon, Venus is very strong, building in square to Pluto ((exact April 3rd)).
This is just another indication that we must be authentic to ourselves and NOW might be the time to set the standard. Obviously, know the room, know the audience and ensure you aren’t just hungry or tired before sharing.
Situations will go far better if they are done from a calm place. Being in person may be the only way to truly get the energy across. If you can’t be in person, use more grounded and connected methods. Texting is the worst for this. Instead, do a video call, phone call or send a pre recorded video/audio message. You’d be surprised how the outcome of a situation can be dependent upon the chosen media method.
If you wanted to FEEL what someone was sharing, which method would work best do you?
