Forging Forward :: Do it Differently

To make space for something new and amazing, we have to let go of something. Some of these things we love. Certain relationships, homes, careers, friends or family members may threaten our sense of peace and have us feeling stuck, yet we still cling to them. Regardless of how they trigger us or hurt us, … Continue reading Forging Forward :: Do it Differently

God as The Universal Web

If we do what is necessary, follow our intuitive hints, past lessons, and that which excites us, we will find a way. We must stick with it, for sure, but without this attempt, we will never know what actually works. The temperature of of hearts depends on the events in our lives. We hold the … Continue reading God as The Universal Web

We aren’t here Forever

This is a finite experience. Were we to be eternal physical beings, perhaps, during this life, we could dance with the gods of the sky and truly get to know them. However, human bodies age and decay. We are not here, in this reality, forever. We must know our limits and choose how we explore. … Continue reading We aren’t here Forever

Lessons Learned in Divorce

This is not for everyone! I learn the way I learn, and I hope these insights are helpful.Also, if you are reading this, I love you. You never stop loving someone Once I love someone, it never stops. I have had the pleasure of being in partnerships with some amazing people. Those connections ended, but … Continue reading Lessons Learned in Divorce

Uprooting or Staying Put :: Facing the Trauma

The changes that occur in our life are opportunities to rethink the base patterns. I’ve been through a lot of endings. Symbolic deaths to friend groups, careers, dreams, and relationships. I’ve also experienced death of friends, coworkers, and family members. Devastating in it's own right, a finality unlike any other. The symbolic deaths, the dramatic … Continue reading Uprooting or Staying Put :: Facing the Trauma

Endings don’t mean it’s over

Things come to an end. A film, a job, a day, a relationship. But that doesn’t mean the experience is over. The experience we have within any situation is a journey into ourselves. An exploration of the knowable universe through the lens of that situation. Each ending represents a bookmark or a checkpoint. A critical … Continue reading Endings don’t mean it’s over

I lost my Wedding Ring

Lost? Gone?... Reclaimed I lost my wedding ring yesterday while swimming in a waterfall with my wife. A sand filled flooded canyon. Chances of recovering the ring slim to none. I was gutted. The ring had not fallen off of my hand a single time in the four and a half years since our ceremony. … Continue reading I lost my Wedding Ring

We are Becoming Stronger

Dealt with some messy shit over the past couple of months.I have learned that it is during these times that I truly see myself. The challenging times, when there is a lack of trust or a breakdown in communication, these are the times that illuminate the shadow. We dig deep into ourselves until we find … Continue reading We are Becoming Stronger